Is it normal to hate fat people after i have lost

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I have never been really fat, just slightly overweight (Entire life tho). I hated my body so much, even after losing about 50 lbs of weight, even when I was far beyond considered overweight. I hated myself even with visible abs, even when my body was probably better than most people (I did workout a lot, so I also had some muscle mass). I wanted to be super lean, with ripped abs, zero visible fat around lower back and have flat face with rocky cheek bones.

And after a year of losing weight, I finally got to the point where I am satisfied. I literally went from hating myself to loving myself. And it unleashed my hatred towards fat people. Not just fat people, even slightly overweight - but just males. I mean, I hate fat women, but just those really fat. But as for men, I find them disgusting when they have more than 12% of bodyfat - i feel no attraction to those who are below, but I can tell they look good (approx.).

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  • FeralDefiance
    7 years ago

    That sounds like you have some pretty serious self-confidence problems, and, after cutting down to impressively low body fat levels, you've transferred the habitual thoughts you'd previously focused on yourself to other people who likely don't give a shit about your opinions or personal body fat ideals. Holding on to that much vitriol will stress you the fuck out, shortening your life and making it harder to enjoy things. Have you thought about why you're so against body fat?

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    This is the reason r/fatpeoplehate was so popular. You hated your old self and now project that hate onto others. Congrats?

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  • jeseminus
    7 years ago

    OP: Well yeah, both comments are right. But so what? I don't beat fat people (Even though fat faces ask for beating) or anything, they just disgust me, because I feel that I've gone through so difficult path to look good and they do nothing and don't give a shit about their abs hidden underneath fat and stuff. What have I done wrong that god made me hate my body? Why don't they hate theirs? But I am not holding and stress or anything, I am quite normal lol. But calling someone fat has become my favorite insult, I use it everytime, especially on the internet or against random people in the street, when they drive like idiots etc. (Not because I am afraid to call someone I know fat, but because I dont get into arguments much)

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Why do you care about other people's bodies not measuring up to yours? It all sounds neurotically obsessive to me

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      • jeseminus
        7 years ago

        It doesn't have to measure up to mine. I don't mind if someone is super skinny for example. Lots of people make fun of skinny men with no muscle. I just don't get it. But making fun of and bullying skinny people is ok I guess, because most people do it, but I am the bad guy because I make fun of fat peple? Especially because those "normal" people would look just the same if they lost all fat they have.

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