Is it normal to hate being attractive

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I have been skinny once and I was a complete bitch back then..so im afraid to be thin again and be a bitch again..I know im a bitch..I dont know man when im fat im smart when im skinny I feel stupid I think about shit and attention and forget about being decent and productive...I dont know bro but being skinny makes me more social..now im fat and I have a social issue but im a smart elephant

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  • alienslayer
    8 years ago

    I think you need an fixed personality, I need one to, Im always changing, I cant seem to help it.

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  • IINtobeonthiswebsite
    8 years ago

    Being a certain body type doesn't make you anything but self-conscience. Society teaches us what you just surmised.

    You need to knock it off and be yourself. You should take care of yourself, and your weight. Having weight issues when you are young only magnify problems when you get old.

    Not saying you need to be a waif, but, chill out on the ding-dongs and ho-ho's, no pun intended.

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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago

    It is not really about being skinny or fat. It is not about finding yourself. It is about making yourself. You can be whoever you want to be. You can still be smart and studious. You can change to be more social. You don't have to be a bitch. YOU control YOUR words and actions. Since you are in control, why not play up some parts of your personality more than others? Experiment a little until you become the person you want to be.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I think what you're saying is understandable, and I can relate, but it's not good for your health. Obesity can lead to so many health problems, and truth be told those health problems make it harder to exercise and lose weight which is exactly what the bigger person needs in his or her life. It's like a downward spiral with problems like, sleep apnea, high blood pressure, diabetes and joint problems just to name a few.

    You might need to see a therapist, buy I think it would honestly benefit you to do some reading on mindfulness so that you can be better aware of your thoughts and emotions. You don't have to let this control your life.
    ;-)

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