Is it normal to get wet from being tickled?

Ok , so im a 28 year old female living with a guy , and he likes to tickle fight me on the couch. i get extremly wet and it sometimes shows on my clothing and he has noticed it soaking my jeans . Is this normal ? i have my own bedroom and we are not lovers . i dont think im turned on sexually but it happens every time im tickled. should i tell him to stop ? its rather embarrassing and i dont want him to think im ready for sex. but i do like being tickled. Oh , also i dont want to start wearing panty liners either as i dont even wear underwear. if thats your thing so be it.

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  • Boojum

    I'm going to plug one of my current favorite books: "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagoski, which contains a lot of interesting information on research into female sexuality.

    In one section of the book, Nagoski goes into some detail about something called "arousal nonconcordance". This is where physical arousal (vaginal blood-flow and lubrication) doesn't match what's going on in the woman's mind. She cites a study where women watched porn and gave a score to how arousing they found particular clips, while a sensor measured their physical arousal. The two matched only 10% of the time. Women would say they found something arousing, but there were no physical signs of arousal; women would say they found something "meh" or even a turn-off, but their vaginas would be soaking wet.

    Vaginal lubrication is an automatic physiological response. In other words, it's hard-wired to some pretty primitive centers of the brain. If that part of the brain decides, "this is a sexual situation", then the vagina lubricates.

    Regardless of your opinions about your roommate and your lack of romantic attraction to him, it's hardly surprising that your brain is deciding that rolling around with a man with lots of close physical contact is a sexually relevant situation, and your vagina better get ready for sex.

    Is your roommate grown-up enough to understand all this? If so, I bet he'd get a real kick out of seeing how big he can make the wet patch on your jeans, so you might get all the tickling you want.

    However, speaking as a guy, I think I'd find it very difficult to just ignore the fact that there was a very obviously aroused vagina very close to me. Tread carefully.

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  • Bailey_Rose

    I dated this girl for a while, we would play wrestle and I would tickle her and yes, she would get extremely wet and turned on.

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  • Everette

    I think that's fucking awsome

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  • Justmehere

    It's just a physical reaction. I've tickled my hot older sister, by surprise, all over, and, in between her laughing and gasping for air trying to get me back, have seen her pants or, especially, sweats, soak through. And know it's not pee. Some women just like the feel of a guy's hands on them, uncontrolled but in fun, and it turns them on.

    To be fair, when she gets back at me, using her so-long, sexy nails..I get hard as hell. Just those nails on my skin get me going.

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  • he dates girls and sometimes they spend the night so i dont try to own his sex life , i think he really understands he is not my type and we are only roomates to save a shit load of money. we each save about a thousand a month more than living apart , i dont want that to dry up anytime soon. im going to tell him its urine. ill say see you made me pee again you idiot. that should accomplish my goal . he can still tickle me like i like and he wont have to think im sexually aroused , the more i think about it i guess thats what it is , my vagina is preparing for sex.

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    • Boojum

      Telling him it's urine is plausible and he'd probably buy it - as long as your scent isn't particularly noticeable and his sense of smell isn't very acute.

      Bear in mind, though, that some men are into pee-play, so it's possible he could find your excuse arousing.

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    • Kevinevan

      Do you have a boyfriend?

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      • i have had some. right now no. the whole date thing just got boring. eats, movies , lame sex , stupid presents , its just some guy buying his way to your vagina. some day i pick a dad for my kids untill that time, no more dates.

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  • rayb12

    Is it coworker? Sounds like it has the word 'cow' in it

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  • nytsrbisyf

    When i play with my cat and she is on my upper legs i get hard.. I cant control it but it may be a sign that i need sex. Who knows, u dont want for example but some part of u know that u will enjoy it and that its what u needed. Do u get wet when he tickles u few hours or day after sex?

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    • how can you getting a boner with a cat mean i need sex? i masturbate every night before sleep. I dont need sex. Especially with my roommate and coworker. we are not romantic , its just a living arrangement to save us money.

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      • nytsrbisyf

        i didnt say that my boner tells that u need sex.. but getting wet is sign that u need it. Cat part was just to show to u that we have no control over it.

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  • Grangletras

    I mean, like, people have gotten wet or hard from weirder things, so, like, just make sure he is aware that you arent tryna fuck and yall should be good

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