Is it normal to get upset with ex that said he was my friend...

I dated and lived with a guy for a year. He is latin/Peruvian. He was nice to me, but was a very controlling person in the fact that he would check the odometer almost daily, follow me places and check on me to see what I was doing. He said it was because I was driving his car. Well, then we broke up amicably and we were friends. We still saw each other about every few weeks and ate together.. me cooking... yes sex... but he had seen other women, and we talked like friends about finding someone else. I was using his extra car as he said I could take my time and not worry about paying him until I got my own. Well, 4 months later, I found a guy that I really hit it off with. We saw each other for less than a week and my ex came by my work and asked to borrow his car. Then he left me with no transportation. He tricked me saying that he would be back with the car in a few hours. Now he has my things in storage at his shop and is giving me the run-around about getting things. Is there anything I can do to get him to quit ignoring my attempts to get my things back and be done with him?... Is this Normal???

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18% Normal
Based on 17 votes (3 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    You were dating George Zimmerman?

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      memphis raines

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  • Tarkio

    The Peruvian culture creates people that do not communicate. Women are discouraged to talk about their feelings with their man. Men are macho and consider themselves above "feelings". They keep everything bottled up inside, and it comes out in rage or trickery.

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  • birge55

    Just turn up and demand it. Take a friend if needs be

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  • AlphaQ

    Welcome to your friends with benefits.

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  • It is his car, so he has a right to take it back when he wants, but it's also your stuff and you have a right to take it back. If he gets weird about giving you your stuff just get a police escort to his house to retrieve your stuff and dont deal with him again because it sounds like he doesn't want to be friendly if he wont give you your stuff.

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  • MissE1967

    Well, I do work for a lawyer and I contacted him and demanded I get my things or else... maybe that stirred him a bit. But, he is doing his trickery... He put all of my things outside in the weather and that is not good as we are having bad winds, very cold temps and possible snow and he is holding a very expensive bed of mine ransom until I give him back a very cheap piece of crap box springs of his... He is a very underhanded person that likes to cause problems, but from everyone else's point of view, he is a nice guy and I am horrible for finding someone else. Well, hopefully this will be over soon.

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