Is it normal to get so mad at your significant other to where you want to harm?

Count to ten. Works. Every. Time

i mean is it so wrong for a woman to hit her man? im sure that it doesnt hurt him! mainly his emotions am i right men??

It's never right to physically hurt someone you love, but it's very common to want to.

You're normal until you actually hit him. Then you're a criminal.

Well if he's insulting you I don't blame you for wanting to hit him xD

I went thru the same thing wit me my bf. he would piss me off that I would end up biting him and not care at all how badly I would damage him. I would always regret it later. then one time he retaliated and he bruised me all up and down my arms. it sucked, needless to say. my lesson was that its a stupd mistake! things will go downhill! the best thing to do is leave and go for a bike ride, go shopping, go stay with your gfs until he misses you and learns time with you is precious and its a fucking mistake to treat u that way. you have to show ur valuable bcuz he wont value u if u dont value urself.

sounds like he doesnt respect you - unless you talk to much..... sometimes you should just walk away and shut up

just hit him but just not in the face or nuts cuz then he might get mad but other then that hes a guy hed probably just laugh at you i mean you cant hit that hardd.

well said thank u very much!

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