Is it normal to get nervous around a girl who likes you but you don't like?

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I get nervous around girls who like me but I don't like.I think it's because I don't want them to find out I don't like them like that and hurt their feelings.I just don't know how to let them down easy and not hurt their feelings.It happens alot to the point where people might think im gay but i'm not.Just have set standards and haven't found a girl I connect with enought to be in a relationship with.As a result I haven't had sex alot in fear of hurting a girls feelings and coming off as a jerk which i am not.I am 26 and horny all the time.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I've been in your position before, and I can't stand when it happens to me. My sympathies, please remember their feelings aren't your responsibility.

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  • walkingdildo
    7 years ago

    I think there have only ever been two girls who have liked me but I haven't liked.

    I guess that makes me pretty low on the social scale.

    Regardless, it is awkward, but you don't owe them a relationship any more than a girl you like but doesn't like you back owes you one.

    You need to be honest to make sure you're not stringing them along and that they don't feel like they are being strung along. Just make it clear that from your perspective, you just don't feel a connection.

    That last sentence was completely irrelevant.

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    • Michael2cool
      7 years ago

      Yeah that is true.I just end up causing more damage if l do not make it clear.

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