Is it normal to get jealous when your bestfriend hangsout with other people?

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When my bestfriend hangsout with her other friends, she acts like she's hanging out with me, but she barely knows them and it drives me crazy. I told her I was moving this summer, and then she got a ton of new friends. I feel like she's replacing me. Is this normal?? It's like I'm selfish with my friends, and she's selfish with objects :/

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I hope it's normal, because I feel that way every day.

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  • amazinggedge19
    14 years ago

    I feel jealous when my best friend tells me all these fun things that I misses out on

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  • iconfused
    14 years ago

    It bugs me. Cause' she and I have a lot of inside jokes that know one else would understand unless you explained it, and she explained it to those stupid "other friends"!! :[

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  • Elie
    14 years ago

    Yeah I feel the same way with my bestfriend! We hang aroundd alot and when she is with her othe friends I feel likee jealouse cause there having fun, and the next day there all talking bout how much they had together!
    But am prettyy sure it's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I mean do you have other friends that she could be jealous of?

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  • Snaaple
    13 years ago

    Ughhh sooo truueee

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  • Ihave2try
    14 years ago

    It's normal, but if youre moving she has to move on. What, do you want her to be friendless? It's part of life, u will also make new friends.

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  • iconfused
    13 years ago

    Thank you :) That is the most supportive thing I have ever been told, and by a stranger!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If she does that she's not a true friend. From now on don't associate with her, and find friends who really care

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  • Nomnoms
    13 years ago

    Well, your friend could be expanding friends because she realizes that you won't be there forever. As for the way she acts around them, they probably make her feel at ease enough to open up. If you really want to know you should talk to her about it, good luck.

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  • iconfused
    13 years ago

    But I'm not moving for like 4 more months. Don't you think it's a little soon to start replacing me or to be "moving on"?

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  • Nomnoms
    13 years ago

    I agree with ihave2try... Has she stopped hanging out with you since you told her?

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  • iconfused
    13 years ago

    I do....but wouldn't I then be just as bad as she herself??? :/

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