Is it normal to get engaged because you dont want to lose your girlfriend

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is it normal for me wanting to get engaged because i don't want to lose the love of my life? Every single time she tells me that she needs to talk to me about something, but doesn't tell me what it is first i always jump to conclusions, like what if shes cheating on me, how long has it been, she is breaking up with me. Don't get me wrong, i really love this girl and i would do anything for her, and i want to get engaged because i love her, and want to be with her, but i also just dont want her to leave me... so tell me is my situation normal?

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  • MoonlightSin
    9 years ago

    It's normal and sweet like everyone else said. You sound a little insecure. Don't be too insecure! Be confident! Be engaged because you love her and because you want to commit to her. Not because you don't want to lose her ;) but i understand you! Wish you guys the best! ❤

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  • MarijuAtheist
    13 years ago

    Hmm. Everyone seems to think your level of neediness is normal. What would you do if your girlfriend decided to leave you? Or what if something happened to her? Would you know what to do with yourself? You should never rely solely on someone else for your own happiness.

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  • Cosmicgiggle
    13 years ago

    Headed for futility and a disasterous relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That's sweet you don't want to lose her, but don't get engaged unless you are absolutely sure you want to marry her and that ur ready for that kind of step.

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  • Destinee
    13 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal. It's also what you do when you don't want to lose someone.

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  • Kai'Layah
    13 years ago

    the point of marrying someone is so that they are in your life always. so yeah, normal...

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    :) normal and very sweet

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Thats sweet and its normal to want someone and to want them to urself go for it go to someplace with alot of meaning and romantic tell her what she means to u an that u love her...then get down on one knee(: the best of luck.

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