Is it normal to get crushes very easily?

I'm a virgin guy and I seem to get crushes on literally every girl or woman I see, as long as she looks like she takes care of herself and seems nice. However I have never approached any girl because I'm shy and afraid that every girl will laugh at and humiliate me. When I see a couple in public I almost always immediately become jealous of the guy. I would like to be in a relationship but I always think that every girl will get bored of me very quickly because I don't have much of a social life and don't really have any cool hobbies or interests. I literally feel like I have nothing to offer so why would anyone want to spend time with me anyway. Obviously, being a virgin I am inexperienced sexually and probably would never be able to pleasure a girl. On the other hand, despite having these thoughts, I also wonder that because I am attracted to so many females and so many different types of females, that my mind would inevitably wander and I would find it difficult to stay loyal. I just don't know anymore. I want someone so bad and it hurts. It hurts that I see so many girls being cute and flirty with their boyfriends and I can't ever get to experience that. I know I will be lonely unless I put myself out there but it's all too scary and intimidating. I just feel like so many things can potentially go wrong in a relationship.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • BluntsRolled

    Dude, relationships are over rated anyway. Its all fluff. I used to be just like you when I was younger. Eventually did get laid a handful of times. That was fine, then I fucked around and got a girlfriend. It was fun at first, but spending 3 years with the same chick got old after a while for both of us. Dont take it so serious cause if you do that you set yourself up for disappointment.

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    • yeah but it would be nice to feel appreciated sometimes

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      • BluntsRolled

        Dont be such a pussy man. You're a MAN you dont need to FEEL shit. Cut that shit out.

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  • mari_98

    You're forgetting that just like you there are many girls going by the same situation and feeling the same as you. If it happens to any boy it'll happen with any girl too

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  • Steve2

    Well, there are billions of females in the world, so go forth and exploreth the vagina.

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    • I couldn't make a kitty wet even if I had the looks of Brad Pitt and the money of Bill Gates.

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      • Steve2

        What about having the looks of Bill Gates and the money of Brad Pitt?

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  • shuggy-chan

    My best advice, fake the confidence until one day you are no longer faking

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    • Don't girls have like telepathic powers or something when they go inside a guy's mind and they can tell when he's being fake?

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