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Sometimes, I get affection (mostly verbal...sometimes physical) from people I barely know. is this considered normal behavior? because if it is, then i want to start doing it too tbh. the only reason i dont act like this is because i dont want people to think i am weird.
1. I was at youth group and a random girl talked to me for a few minutes and then she was like “wanna give me a hug?”
2. a girl I barely knew put her hand on my leg when I was sitting next to her. this same girl held my hand, which was awkward.
3. a random girl i barely knew asked me to sit next to her.
4. a married man that sent me a love letter before i ever talked to him.
5. this guy’s wife told me she thinks i am beautiful and she likes to stare at me.
6. a weird cashier at Target told me she was “admiring” me
7. my neighbors were having a bbq and this random guy was like “hey sweetie, you want some food?”
8. a random old man told me i am beautiful
9. one of my neighbors called me “babe” multiple times
10. one of the nurses at the hospital called me “my love”
11. one of the nurses at the hospital told me i am beautiful.
12. when i was a teacher’s assistant, one of the little girls hugged me and kissed me (no, i did NOT reciprocate. i picked her up and put her back in her seat)
13. small children at the store have told their mom they want to talk to me.
14. a boy asked me for a hug even tho we dont really know eachother at all.
15. in 8th grade, my teacher was like “i like you” and i was like “what”
16. teachers have said things like “you look nice today”
17. one of the teachers said she missed me when i was absent
I doubt many will think you are weird, but they might start liking you or assuming you like them if you dish out affection willy nilly. Which can be annoying because sometimes I like to compliment or do something nice for a stranger/acquaintance but want absolutely nothing to do with them. Alas