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It was just an online thing where'd I'd send him pics of me doing what he asked and shit, but I was only 17 and half then. So totally illegal, do girls do that? Or was I just trying to grow up too fast? It embarrasses me now to think I did that.
I'd say most people both men and women at the age of 16 or 17 are wanting to finish that step and just be an adult. If you were quite a bit younger i'd be concerned but at that age it's mostly normal.
It's normal for you, but unacceptable for him if he knows your age. I think u understand that and yes, you are right, it's part of wanting to grow up too fast. Be careful and good luck, but, yes, you are normal
Of course, while I don't condone distribution of child. pornography, which is legally speaking what you did. it is I believe a very common occurrence nowadays.
At 16 I knew what I was doing.I loved being "naughty" whether they were aware or not was of no consequence to me.my husband knows. He likes his naughty girl
Contrary to the belief you can be kinky at puberty. However it's illegal for BDSM places and websites to allow anyone under 18 and society often frowns upon BDSM. So they are less understanding of this vs "well I'm gay". People often assume kink is only used to spice up bedroom after a few years of vanilla dating and sex. However a lot of people can only get off with BDSM. It's just as teens your less likely to find a proper outlet and have to wait till 18 to freely express your sexuality.
I would say it is normal. I quite enjoy it personally. But you cant do it at such a young age.
How much older?
20-something is still fine.
More is too much. You may have daddy issues or something, or secretly want to shock your parents and have the twisted fantasy of knowing you're doing something they would totally disapprove. Oh, and the guy might be a creep... and while your fantasy still looks nice now, he may end up doing things to you that you won't like so much (or not at all).
I don't know your exact situation but I will say this: Please stay away from older men, especially online. And always stay away from men who call themselves "doms" or "daddies." No matter what anyone tells you about this kind of thing being ok, men like that get off on dominating and hurting girls, and they are bad people. Find someone you know in real life, someone your age who has healthy sexual behaviors. There is nothing wrong with having sex and sending pictures as long as it's safe. I have known many people who have fallen into the traps of predatory men online, take care of yourself.
Also, if something feels wrong about it, trust yourself. It probably is wrong.
I agree with Maid in Pink and Jenny. It was normal for you, but unacceptable for him. While technically you should not have done that, you were a teen and it's normal for teens to want to experiment and explore their sexuality without thinking too much about the consequences, so I think you should not feel guilty about it.
I think girls try stuff with guys their age when they are that young but this predator should be in jail.
17 and a half is almost an adult, and in many states in the U.S., 17 and even 16 is the age of consent when it comes to sexual matters. You said you feel embarrassed about it? Is it something you regret doing?
I don't regret it per say. But I find it to have been sort of big, and it's not something I can really tell anyone without being very judged now. But he was also so much older than me, which makes me find it disturbing when I think back on what he had me doing
Lighten up, smile, laugh a lot do what feels good.
YOU arre A-OK in my book.
Papa Gino
Not too far off from being of legal age, doms can be a lot of fun. Online doms are something to be watchful of though, because you never really know who your doing things for.
Where's my fake beard and cigar I wonder?
Seriously though, I suspect that you have... DADDY ISSUES!