Is it normal to freak out in front of the opposite sex?

when I see good looking girls I try to avoid them but sometimes it's awkward to ignore them so I have to talk or at least acknowledge them. That's when it gets weird, because I try to give off the appearance of being calm and relaxed, but inside I freak out. Usually in this situation I just can't say much of anything, and anything I do say turns out to be really stupid. I am a pretty funny and smart guy, my friends think so. But when I am faced with attractive girls, I just can't show my "real" personality, it's like my brain stops working, and instead I start trying to be cool or pretend like I don't care, when in fact I do care what she thinks of me and instead of trying to make her comfortable around me or say something funny or intelligent, I'm more concerned with my appearance and how I look or the image I project at that exact moment. Basically I get really self-conscious because I am trying too hard to impress someone and that prevents me from just relaxing and being myself. A lot of times I even think about what I could have said or how differently I could have acted afterwards when I'm alone.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • astoriaboy

    You sound pathetic.

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    • can you elaborate

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      • astoriaboy

        I don't see the need, thought I was pretty clear and direct. Everything you explained about yourself sounds pathetic.

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  • Lonely2

    Your normal just need more socializing

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  • thegypsysailor

    So, what you are basically saying is that around unattractive girls you're fine, but if you think they are attractive, you become an idiot?
    Think about that for a minute. You are assuming that because you find a girl attractive that you might have sex with her, so you're trying to be super cool to get it. But since the unattractive girl doesn't interest you, you are OK.
    So why not try to lay an unattractive girl and get that out of the way, and see if that doesn't help.

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    • itsnotnormal5

      You pretend to sail the world from your mother's basement.

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  • Arm0se

    Yeah :/

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    • u kno the feels bro hahah

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