Is it normal to force pregnancy on a girl and is it illegal

He was threatening rape. Not normal or okay. Unfortunately I doubt you'd have an easy time trying to get the authorities to do anything about it.

You should call the police. They need to get that guy off the streets before he kills or rapes some girl.

That is horrible. At the very least he could get done for sexual harassment. That was an intent to rape.

Also, I too am curious about why you use 'they'...

My god some people feel so entitled. Its scary.

What a creep!

That guy is a rapist!

Is there a way you can inform the powers that be at Tinder of this guy? I don't know what all they would do, and it's very possible they wouldn't do anything.

Tinder is known as more of a booty call sort of website, and there are a lot of unsavory characters on that website, and online in general. I think you ought to read a book called The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker! It's very normal for you to feel now that you don't want to date anymore. It sounds to me like you used to think internet dating just for hook-ups was a safe activity, and now you see that is not entirely so. You're probably dealing with some cognitive dissonance, and I think what you are experiencing is normal despite how truly awful it was.

It certainly wouldn't hurt for you to take a break from sex, and dating entirely in order to reevaluate things.

No but a female can force it on a male. Welcome to the legal system in America at least

I'm sorry? "Force pregnancy" sounds like rape. Please talk with your partner about this, as she technically has the power of abortion and adoption anyway. Forced pregnancy is disgusting anyway, please do not ever do this or try this.

Depends on country if it is a rape or other felony. In my coubtry guys do this all the time (damage condom secretly or swap birth control pills with blank ones) because it is hard to find girlfriend. And if you havr one, you will do anything to keep her.

That wasn't dating. Besides, what did you expect to get by hooking up with strange men(plural)from Tinder, Prince Charming? You're lucky you got out of there alive let alone not pregnant. Such a maroon.

Absolutely creepy and disgusting. I'd report him.

No, it's not normal for someone to do anything like that. It's a form of rape, and the guy sounds extremely mentally unhinged.

Gotta admit that guy knew he'd try and force you he is a true scumbag, none of what you're describing is normal, people like that scumbags, you should also learn that he isn't a real boyfriend in any sense. People like that are more likely to probably avoid the subject even if you do try to confront them, most rapists would try to use some sort of excuse ( which by the way is what most of them do. ), I know that dude might do that. Your only option is to delete contacts of him, delete them for your own good. Like what both Boojum and RoseIsabella has mentioned this is also normal however to not feel like dating anymore which is also understandable.

There's nothing at all normal about that guy and what he said and did.

In the UK, the law recognises the concept of "conditional consent", and it's against the law for a guy here to stealthily remove his condom when the other person agreed to have sex only with a condom. Of course, proving what happened in a court is difficult without hard evidence, which means the police might see no point in charging the guy, and prosecutors might decide there's no chance a jury will accept what the woman says.

My understanding is that it's even less likely that police and prosecutors in the USA will decide to proceed in such cases.

What mystifies me is why you apparently believe it's reasonable for you to have sex without birth control. In an ideal world, all men would respect the wishes of women and never do anything that might result in a woman getting pregnant if she doesn't want that. But we don't live in that perfect world. There's no shortage of asshole, misogynistic men who get off on the idea of inflicting an unwanted pregnancy on a woman because that gives them a sense of power or because of even more twisted shit going on in their heads.

Putting all the responsibility for you not getting pregnant on the guys you have sex with and relying entirely on condoms is pretty damn stupid. Condoms sometimes break. Condoms can slip off. Using the wrong sort of lubricant can cause condoms to literally turn to shreds. If you have multiple sessions of PIV, it's possible for the exterior of a new condom to pick up semen when the guy puts it on. Some guys are stupid enough to try to reuse condoms, and that makes it very likely viable sperm could be on the outside.

And it's not all that unusual for a woman who happens to be in the broody phase of her monthly cycle when she happens to be having sex with a guy who pushes all of her happy buttons to suddenly find all sorts of irrational, completely unexpected stuff about babies buzzing around in her head. In that moment, she might feel that she really wants to have unprotected sex, only to realise that was a really, really stupid thing once she comes down from her high.

The guy was a fucked up asshole. It's awful that you experienced what you did with him, and your reluctance to jump back in the cesspit of Tinder is completely understandable. But if you eventually decide to do that, long before you pick up your phone and start swiping, you need to accept that you're the person who's primarily responsible for ensuring that you don't get pregnant and you should make sure you have some sort of effective birth control in place before you have penetrative sex.

What do you mean by they? Is it a he or they???? Besides you are dumb. Just leave and take a morning after pill.