Is it normal to for it to feel impossible to have an orgasm

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My boyfriend is absolutely amazing in bed and I have felt that I have gotten really close to an orgasm but I just never reach that point. Whether the sex lasts 10 minutes or an hour with or without different types of foreplay. It feels good and I enjoy it but I always feel that I am not entirely satisfied because of this. I am starting to wonder if theres something wrong with me . . . Anyone else with this problem?

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  • womaninneed
    6 years ago

    I have the same problem but I masterbate just fine. It’s all in my head

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  • NashamaTheWeird
    6 years ago

    Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm. I would recommend masterbation as a way to explore your body and see what works for you. Also try spicing things up in the bedroom, using toys during sex could be an option. Be sure to talk to your boyfriend about this issue so that you can both work on making sex more pleasurable for you in the future.

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  • Bailey_Rose
    6 years ago

    More women than not are not able to reach orgasm through sexual intercourse or foreplay. Have you ever been able to reach orgasm yourself from masturbating? If it others you that much, I would look into possibly seeing a sex therapist. They might be able to help you if it is a psychological issue. They may even be able to give you advice on different techniques to reach orgasm. Good luck!

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    completely normal. some women just can't get off . are you taking any medication? any at all. about four kinds kill my ability to orgasm and im a guy. you might see a sex therapist with your boyfriend at the same time. you should be discussing this with the boyfriend not a forum because ultimately the only cure is between you and him.

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