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Is it normal (for both men and women) to flirt with others after they are married as long as no sex is involved?
I love to flirt and would find it difficult to stop even though I love my partner but I would never cheat.
Bleh. Why would you want to flirt with anyone else when you’re married ? That makes both of you look cheap. Embarrassing.
If you are flirting and girls are flirting back you are gonna end up cheating 99/100 times in my opinion. You are tempting yourself too much and your dick will take over your brain. One night you'll be drunk mad at the wife and horny and you gonna call the flirty girl
I'm not a flirt, and especially not if I'm in a relationship! It's disrespectful of your spouse for you to flirt with other people.
No, it’s disrespectful to your partner and a slippery slide into infidelity. If you’re not ready to stop flirting then you’re not ready to be married or even in a committed monogamous relationship.
It's usually women who do it infront of their partner. If he says anything later on theres a row that goes something like this " your just a jealous , controlling ....." he's in the doghouse and she's got the upperhand even more than before. Next time in company of others he knows to let her flirt (or let men flirt with her and lead them on) and to keep quiet or there be no sex etc for a while or until she needs something.
Exactly, flirting when married only causes problems.
It’s marriage stories like that that make me thank the universe I’m not straight or married, what a miserable way to live.
Marriage to me is like being boyfriend and girlfriend with legal privileges and tax benefits. If your girlfriend has emergency surgery if you say im the boyfriend to the hospital staff they just kind of ignore you and wont treat you as important as her parents and shit. Hell sometimes they even say family only is allowed back here.
I'm not saying it's right, but it is far more normal than you'd think. People tend to flirt for more reasons than sex, though. Some people just do it because they think it's fun, while others do it as a sort of display of power.
Flirting within your boundaries is normal. I don’t do it in front of my wife but it’s fun sometimes.