Is it normal to find lovesickness more interesting then love itself?

I've experienced both, with the same person. I definitely enjoy the happy feelings of love. I could describe how I felt, but I'd end up writing pages and pages. So I'll keep it simple. Me and this person basically became long distance and at first, I used to see him every day, now I see him maybe once a month if I'm lucky. The lovesickness was hell on me both physically and mentally. My appetite, motivation, and energy was gone. I felt nauseous, tired, irritated, upset like I was ready to cry. There were nights when I had shed tears. It was unbelievable to me that I could feel legit sick over this. I'm doing way better now, but as I reflect from it, I'm just more interested in how the body reacts to lovesickness then how it reacts to love.

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  • Lost123

    Find a distraction. Your "clinginess"May be the reason for his absence.
    If it's just a bootie call ,you should cut that shit out,don't wast your time!Get on with your life.Besides it sounds like he has some one else,or at the very least looking around,and using you as a break from whatever else he is doing.

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  • sandnigga

    Sounds like you love him :)

    But yea you shouldnt feel like your addicted to him.

    Thats what causing your sickness. Is your feel like you need him.

    You dont. Its great that you love him and want to be with him.

    But extreme dependency on someone to where you cant live your life doesnt sound that good

    N your doing better, because over time you realized you dont need him, but you still love him :) Which you should if you do love him

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