Is it normal to find a stripper up for casual sex.

I've been going to this strip club for a while and its a bit of a dive. A small little repurposed bar with 5s and 8s on stage for a lucky night. The cute ones rarely give dances and if they do its a pretty close contact affair with hands on at the girls discretion. Bouncers and security are nowhere to be found, and the only male on staff is the 80something owner.

In the time I've been there ive found two girls who seem to go a little wild but only during lapdances. Its a topless bar yet I've had hands in my pants and bare crotch in my face without a word about extras or even a handsome tip though I have tipped them afterwards. I tend to spend about 60$ a dancer for 3 songs with 20$ tip if I liked it and i ask before trying anything adventurous but usually by song 2 they slip the bikini too far down and my hands are free to roam. The girls know my name and habits by now and its the type of bar when the girls sits next to regulars its usually to start a long conversation and not to stick a dollar in her bra.

is it normal to try to have sex(protected of course)with a stripper if she seems willing and doesn't throw down a price tag for what are normally extras?

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58% Normal
Based on 43 votes (25 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • handsignals

    Keep dreaming you sad little man....those girls are desperate for money there's no way they want to fuck you they find you disgusting...find a GF.

    Harsh but true.

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    • ZaWolrd

      It seems to me if they were desperate they would charge extras. These girls have no reason to show their bodies off for free or even to allow that much touching.

      It could be argued that they are enticing me for repeat business, but in truth only about 7 girls there do lap dances so competition isn't stiff.

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  • Wow...

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  • RoseIsabella

    Those chicks were probably products of dysfunction alcoholic families who abused and or molested them.

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    • ZaWolrd

      This is really just a stereotype, and not really related to the question.

      Next time I want to ask what to bring to my black friend's birthday I'll be sure to listen to you for watermelon and coolaid.

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      • RoseIsabella

        You're just jealous because I'm insightful and your nothing, but a plain old racist fool, fool.

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        • ZaWolrd

          Its not insightful to point out the elephant in the room, stereotypes are well known which is the reason they are such a large stigma. And before pointing fingers to me for being racist you should look into fixing that sexist attitude.

          Answer the question next time or leave. Nobody has time to play with you.

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  • KindOfWeird

    It should be fine if its consensual. Seems unlikely though. Strippers know the right strings to pull to keep their long-time clients happy and coming back for more. Long conversations are just part of it.

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  • k10101010101010101010

    offer them coke.. they'll be yours to take home

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  • cupcake_wants

    troll

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