Is it normal to fight with my bf then have sex with him?

I don't know why but every time me and my bf get into a heated argument. We end up having sex.

I even painfully lost my virginity to him, and it was after I was arguing with him and cussing him out. And he slapped me, which then made me more upset and angry. But a few minutes after the argument we end up doing it, right then and there, in different parts of our home.

So I just wanted to know if this is normal, and why is this the only thing that triggers our sex life?

P.S I'm a bisexual guy (so no one gets any surprises about my gender).
And my bf is a masculine gay (but is a softy to others and to me sometimes).

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Comments ( 19 )
  • BENDOVEROWLDRIVE

    Instead of kiss and make up , it's called fuck and make up.

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    • Ha nice one.

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  • Kookulainamus

    His cock is teaching you submission. You are a prisoner of your desires.

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    • Yeah I admit I enjoy it rough.
      But not when it gets too rough.

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  • MrMoose

    Hatefucking FTW, right?!

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    • Yeah of course!
      But sometimes it's gets a little too rough, since he was very angry a few minutes before we do it.

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  • SamanthaReese

    Yes... that is the best part about fighting

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    • Yeah true, beats staying mad at each other.

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  • IMissMary

    Interesting

    I take it you are the bottom and he is the top.

    You need to learn how to be a switch and give him a taste of the goods life.

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    • Yeah I am.

      Yeah I doubt that he'd want to do that, he's more aggressive anyway.

      Yeah it is interesting but is it also normal?

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      • IMissMary

        Feels good to be owned doesn't it?

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      • IMissMary

        Yes normal

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        • Okay, so you had a similar situation too or heard of any other ones that are alike?

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          • IMissMary

            After awhile they started doing stuff just to piss me off so I could take it. I would get a hand full of hair and pull their head back then kiss their neck and force them to undress then I'd take it from the back

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          • IMissMary

            Yes had similar situation. Except I was on top, it made me extra hard and I fucked extra hard too

            I take it you like it hard

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            • Yeah but I'm no masochist, I don't enjoy it anymore if I start to feel pain. Like the first time I slept with him, after we had a small fight, he made me bleed...

              But I do enjoy it rough to some degree.
              Yeah he does the same too, but tries to forcibly undress me, and I just let him.

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