Is it normal to fight as intensively as you love?
My new gf and I are both capricorns. Both very similar. Both like art and music. Both hold grudges and are mistrusting. Both smoke weed and cigarettes. Both like animals and video games. We have as much in common as we have different. She is a die hard catholic born n raised by her first generation Mexican American parents, I'm white and atheist. She went to rehab for a mental breakdown and is on antipsychotics (before I knew her) and I went for heroin and am on methadone. She has a cat, I have a dog and rats, she hates rats. She is very outgoing, and I'm kind of introverted. The thing is, we have the most incredible sex. I've had good sex before, but not like this, every single time we fall of that edge at the same exact time. It's awesome. We love each other, atleast I love her to death. But we also fight. A lot. At first I took it as her trying to mold me into what she wants, the perfection that I wasn't before, but I've come to learn it's because she cares. And most of these things she complains about are things I (if I'm honest with myself) I take issue with. I've never been in a relationship like this before, it's a roller coaster and I can't get off even if I wanted to. My explanation is that passion burns as brightly no matter where you spark it. I feel like we are two N sides two magnets being forced together, and other times I feel as if we are two halves of the same. I'm wondering if this is normal when you find someone you think could be your soulmate. The anxiety of being possibly wrong, the roller coaster feeling, how she holds my attention without even trying?