Is it normal to feel unwanted when friend doesn't answer or return my calls?
Whenever I call or text my friend and she doesn't answer or return my calls, I can't help but feel like I'm not wanted by her or that she's mad at me about something. In the past I've had so called "friends" who would suddenly stop answering or returning my calls and that usually meant that they didn't want me around anymore. I mean if I did or said something wrong to you, at least tell me so I won't do it again. A couple years ago, I had a small operation to replace my pacemaker. Whenever I called a couple of my friends to tell them about the operation, they never answered or called back to see how I was feeling. One of them went as far as to change her number. I even had "friends" turn on me for no reason. I'm a nice person, and a loyal friend. I'm always more than willing to take time for you to help you out whenever you need it. And like I said, if I ever did or said anything to offend you, then at least tell me so I'll make sure to never do it again. Now whenever I call my friend and she doesn't answer, I always get this feeling like I'm not welcome. We get along just fine. We always joke with each other and make each other laugh. But when it comes to calling her, it's no big deal if she doesn't answer once or twice, but after a while, I start feeling like she's mad at me and that she doesn't want me around anymore. I know that what happened in the past with those horrible people should stay in the past, but I can't help but worry that it could happen again.