Ask Your Question today
me again. i've done some reflecting and i think the reason i'm alone is because i'm not worthy of being with the women i want to be with...i mean who am i? 20 not in college working fast food and living at the house with ma n pop..... who am i to take any beautiful woman away from someone more.....qualified...? is this normal to think these thoughts?
The love of your life should be yourself. It's important to have self esteem. I don't have a boyfriend, but I don't actually care or anything, so it doesn't bother me.
Just because you don't make much money and don't have a college degree doesn't mean much. It's more important to have the right personality and have some degree of intelligence and similar interests than make lots of money.
Don't think you don't have what it takes. You just need to find the right person. I'm probably more educated than some people, but I still feel unworthy sometimes because I don't have much personality. For some reason, I have a few friends that like me anyway, though, so don't worry. You just need to find the right person.
I see "unworthy" people with beautiful, smart, awesome people all the time. It doesn't matter what your qualifications are, it matters if both people feel love and connection to each other. If you're worried about taking someone beautiful away from someone more "worthy", what's worthy? Being rich, living alone, being handsome? Those things are easily taken away, and if all that's left is someone with a shitty personality, then that person is doomed. It depends on your personality, your humor, your ability to be lovable and loved. If you have those qualities, you're more than worthy to have someone equally as worthy.
Good luck..
You've got a job. You are young with your whole life ahead of you. You live with two people who love you. I bet you've even got plans for your future too. You are not as horrible as you think you are. Don't make that decision for her (that you are not worthy based on your own insecurities).
Yes, it's true that for some women, a career and education are very important in a mate, but not all of them are like that. A lot of women just want a faithful man who loves them unconditionally.
i dont think womans are care about where you work at or where you live at and with who. they care about your personality and how good person you are.
SILLYNESS! Qualification for relationships?!?!?
1)Who do you want to be with?
2)Do you interact with the person you want to be with?
3)Whats stoping you from asking him/her out?
There are drug adicts in relationships with "the one" living of dole and drug cuts. Who are you to take any beautiful woman away from someone? YOU! If you like her and she likes you then what dose your job or age have to do with it. "20 liveing with ma n pop" So what? Ive met a 26 year old living with his mum, sit in a cafe with his GIRL FRIEND! Happier than most office workers that earn more in a month than i'll see in a year. Lifes tough man, sometimes you gotta stay home a little longer so you can move out, without, ending up in a crack house. You have a job, wich is better than alot of people. Unfortunatly its normal for one such as yourself to think so little of themself. You should try to gain some confidenc though. Gain some selfesteam. Good luck and keep trying. You'll find someone eventuly.