Is it normal to feel this way about having a girlfriend?

I'm 18, male and I have never had a girlfriend before. Still a virgin, never kissed, never held hands, can't flirt to save my life, Etc.

Most of the time I really, genuinely don't care about getting a girlfriend. I am even glad that I am single sometimes. However there are times I find myself wishing I had a girlfriend. Its almost a kind of longing.

My question is this, Is it normal to not care one minuet then care a lot the next?

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83% Normal
Based on 53 votes (44 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Yea, its probably due to hormone fluctuations in your body caused by your PERIOD

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    • DhGlory

      ZING!

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  • dom180

    I'm the same. I always worry that one day I will want a relationship, but everyone will think I'm weird for never having been in one before.

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  • RozChako

    normal. I feel the same way at times. just live your life. if it's meant to happen, it will.

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  • Pistashios

    Yes that is normal, I'm the same.

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  • Oli

    Don't get one. Cuz then you get lonely and do stupid shit.

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