Is it normal to feel this way about a guy (help)

so there is this guy that i'm really infatuated with, lets call him A.
A is a social media star but he isn't in the millions or anything, like i can talk to him and get his attention and things like that. Anyways, i swear its almost like we have this connection. He will be broadcasting and i will be watching from my laptop and he will randomly start singing this sing that i was just playing in my head. Or he will post covers of songs on instagram that i had stuck in my head that day. He notices me alot and one time when he was broadcasting, i told him that we had never met before ,bc that was the topic at hand, and he was like "We've never met? -insert my name here- Well we've gotta meet sometime soon." and this happened a couple months ago and i showed it to my mom and best friend and they both showed me that when he asked the question he actually looked really surprised- both of his eye brows shot up. So me, being me, i took it to google. I looked up what does it mean when a guys eyebrows shoot up when they are talking to you, and it basically said that he was either surprised, being dominant, orrr he is attracted to me. He wasn't being dominant, bit any of the other two I'm cool with. i have his follow on every social site and i have the same name on every social site so I hope he at least knows my name. And there has been so many more weird things like that happening and they still happen. It all started Feb, 21 of this year. and i have also heard that when you like someone over 4 months, it technically love. But, im not so sure about that. I took a love test, and it said that I was in love with him but I'm just not really sure about that,, and he really makes me feel giddy. thats the only word that i can use, not happy, just giddy. I want to know the stupid small things about him, like what shampoo does he use, how many times does he shave a week, ect.. Just small things like that about him intrigue me.. Ive asked my friends for their opinions but since they are my friends, i feel like they just tell me what i want to hear. so i brought it here. I really want to know if im thinking too much into this or could there actually be something there. he is always replying to me when I comment on his photos, he has even liked my photos on instagram. like he was taking the time out if his day to do that... he lives like 3 hours away from me, i dont know where he actually lives thats just his city from mine. and also another thing i just thought of, he makes me actually want to dress up and look really pretty and get these really cute and girly clothes and wear my hair in different way or do my makeup different ways... I'm a t-shirt and jeans kinda girl so feeling this way is different for me.. i also talk about him alot to anyone who will listen. Is this normal? Am I just thinking too much into things?

(edit- there's been so many different things to happen that my friends and some family have said that there's way too many things to be just a coincidence...)

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Comments ( 19 )
  • Murun

    Keep in the jeans and T shirt. Be yourself.

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  • bob7

    familiar much :D

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    • normalornaw

      Lol wassuppppp!! I had left something's out and it wouldn't let me edit it so I did another one

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      • bob7

        i went to his IG comments and found so many girls saying cheasy pickup lines like yours :D

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        • normalornaw

          That actually made me so mad when I first seen people doing that after he noticed my lines... I was like wtf

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          • bob7

            Oh damn , whats ur next plan now :D

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  • suckonthis9

    Yep, normal.

    You have a serious case of Groupie Infatuation Syndrome (GIS).

    What you want to do, is to get in on his 'inner circle', and be his 'fave'.

    PS: At this point, birth control is a must; there's no going back!

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    • normalornaw

      How do I get into his inner circle?

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      • suckonthis9

        It's easy, just keep dropping little hints like:

        Where are you hangin' out lately? I'd really like to get in on it!
        I'd really like /love to come and see the shag-pad!
        It's a long, hard journey to get with you; but I think it will be worth the trip!
        Have you tried any new flavours lately? Would you like to try one with me?

        Try to think of others like this, on whatever you are talking about, experiencing, or what your mutual interests are.
        Ask your friends also, as an inside /outside viewpoint is often helpful.

        There's something new and exciting that I'd like you to see on your laptop. I'd love to come over and show it to you! (Just thought of this one).

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        • normalornaw

          I would try that but he is a social media "star"

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          • suckonthis9

            Social media "stars" are people too!

            You're going to really need to try, just a little bit harder.

            Otherwise, in a few years time, you will regret not doing what you should have done!

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            • suckonthis9

              You're really going down a slippery-slope on this one, but I know that you'll find excitement and satisfaction when you get there!

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