Is it normal to feel so lost? am i a lesbian or am i waiting for the right guy?

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i'm 25 and still a virgin.the thought of having sex with a man just makes me feel really uncomfortable.i've never really found a man i like.i'm considering the fact that i might be lesbian(i do find girls attractive) but i'm worried i'm having these feelings mainly because i haven't found a man i really like. those close to me think i just haven't found the "right" guy.is it normal to be this lost?

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  • mikafor
    11 years ago

    Maybe you just haven't found a guy you truly loved yet. It can be seen as a good thing that sex is a moment you only want to share with the perfect person.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    i think it's normal to be lost, at times.

    as for men or women, it's not only a sex thing, as the idea of sex may always put you on the edge as a virgin.

    Imagine an attractive women and an attractive men.

    Whom would you rather have to give you a sensual massage, starting with your back, turning you around, touching your breasts, having their hands wander down while they whisper sweet nothing into your ear before playfully licking your neck...

    /of course, substitute whatever phantasy does something for you, this was just as "starting slow" with simple caresses that lead to more...

    you may find an answer by looking into your phantasy, or you may need to experiment. but going through a time of being lost, or rather, lack of orientation and direction, is normal, in sexual ways as well as in many others.

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    • lilysh
      11 years ago

      thanks.I thought about what you said, and i know it's just very hard for me to think of being with a man. i know i'm scared of something but i'm not sure what exactly.people say i'm attractive and there are boys that like me, but i always seem to find a reason to not make things go further, yet at the same time i just can't get myself to try with girls. I'm at a point in which i know i have to do something, but i'm not sure what :(

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