Is it normal to feel so lonely that your body hurts

i have some friends but don't feel connected to them, also can't fall in love with any guy, i don't care about anybody, but i need to love somebody, to feel connected emotionally. I can't direct these feelings to anybody and they just bottle up in me to the point my chest hurts, heart and tummy feels strange.

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  • palepunk

    Normal. Depression affects the body in many ways. Take a hot bath or get a pet! :)

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  • shuggy-chan

    If u need a companion, your local spca has plenty of willing companions there im sure

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  • thegypsysailor

    How old are you? Very, very young it seems. Be patient. Right now you should be concentrating on your school work anyway, friends and romance are just distractions most kids really don't need in high school. After you get into a good college, you'll find that it's easier to make friends and lovers will be coming out of the wood work. Be patient!

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  • mariindi

    I can relate to what u said.. I have physical problems also.. but because i have been pushing my intuition to the side. When that person/people who I have been longing to have a deep connection with is finally in my midst i know the pain will subside. Cause i know what i need.. in my view, you do too. Its just a matter of knowing you already have it.. Work on yourself and know that special person/people will come into your life. If u are seeking it, they are too (whoever they may be). What I have learned is that all the things I want/need are there already, it's just admitting those things are mine, and I can reach out for them whenever I need to. That's the hard part. Hope that helped.

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  • Johnnytherat

    sometimes they will tattoo themselves, looking deeper into the self claimed "cult". i have found many inconsistencys. further trials will be conducted. captains log- day 27 0 500 hours. -Capt. Rat

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