Is it normal to feel romantically for my friend while in a relationship?

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I have been in a happy relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half. Regardless, lately, I've been feeling strangely drawn to my very close friend, romantically and adoringly. My other problem is that while my girlfriend and I are both bisexual females, my friend is asexual, and I wonder if there'd be anything behind the feelings that have been keeping me awake at night. In any case, I've neither discussed nor acted upon this. Am I a dreadful person who doesn't deserve either?

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Based on 30 votes (22 yes)
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  • videl
    11 years ago

    of corse it's normal i have the same problom as u do

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  • pauleleven
    11 years ago

    Take a look at south park season 16 episode 7, it is absolutely normal to feel the romance for another person while that other guy's in a relationship....

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  • curiousd
    11 years ago

    You're not a dreadful person. You can't choose who you like romantically, it just happens. Since you've never acted upon your feelings you're not cheating or anything. You need to be honest with yourself and your girlfriend if you think this attraction won't go away. If you have the urge to act on it, you should talk it over first.

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