Is it normal to feel really scared to have sex when it's been a while?

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I'm not looking for anything serious right now but there are a few guys I like and like me back and we've talked about wanting to have fun at some point, but I haven't been intimate with anyone in a really long time, at least not when I haven't been out drinking. How do I get over that?

Don't care if you think it's wrong, that's not the question.

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  • roxandham
    7 years ago

    I think to get over it you might have to just face it. Just go out and have fun with the guy(s) and see how things go. Take it slow.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks, I think you're right, I'm just really nervous about my body and being bad in bed as I haven't been with anyone for a while. Natural I suppose.

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  • Curiousme1981
    7 years ago

    Perfectly normal to feel that way

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks, I'm just really nervous.

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      • Curiousme1981
        7 years ago

        Don't live your life with regret I am currently and it takestrel a toll on me

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    It's like riding a bike you never forget.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    When you decide to get sexually involved with some, tell him your fears: if he's not understanding and supportive forget it until you find someone who'll listen to you respectfully and be patient with you

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