Is it normal to feel pressure to make the first move with your boyfriend?

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I have been seeing a guy for a while now and we are very close and I can tell we both like each other alot! The problem is he is a bit shy and when it comes to more intimate moments I know he wants to take it to the next step, and i don't have a problem with that but he is not the type to force a women into anything! I think that is great and really sweet that he is so respectful in that way, but then it worries me that he wants me to make the first move when im ready! I am an old fashion girl and i am used to the man making the first move so if he does not intend to do this then i am starting to feel pressure that maybe he wants me to, and thats not going to happen...sry. What do you guys think?

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  • PorkyExposed
    12 years ago

    Im the same way.. I can't even be the first one to call, always has to be the guy... and no matter how comfortable i get w.a guy i CANT iniate sex because i have a fear of getting turned down lol..

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    p in his b.

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