Is it normal to feel outstandingly beautiful?

I'm a woman and most of the time, when I look in the mirror, I find myself expressing something like "wow, most beautiful woman in the world". Whenever this happens, I'm glad noone can hear it. I hear girlfriends and strangers talking about their incecurities so frequently, I wonder how it it possible that I think of myself as a goddess and while I do tell other women that I find myself beautiful, it's secretly to and extent that only past lovers know of. I will also almost exclusively date men that I view as similarly godlike and have them worship me (and I woship them in return as sort of archetypical male and female forces). I feel like the ultimate woman somehow. I do have some flaws, but I still think I'm perfect. Do a lot of you have this and just act like they don't to not sound too conceited or is feeling like crap about your appearance actually the norm? Does everyone think of themselves as the ultimately perfect person and is this feeling just hidden under forced on incecurities or the belief that you shouldn't like yourself too much? I find other women very beautiful too btw and compliment them, but I'm particularly in love with myself.

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  • 53739

    I love beautiful and confident women.

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  • snarkygirl

    You should use it to your advantage. Get some modeling gigs or bag a really rich dude:)

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  • jr__

    I feel your glow from here :D

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  • Holzman_67

    That's great as long as it doesn't effect your attitude towards others and give you a superiority complex.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Good for you.

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  • Steve2

    It's good to be pleased with yourself, but only if you are an elite person.

    People often tell me I'm narcissistic, but being extremely intelligent, successful AND extremely, breathtakingly sexy, I have a right to be honest.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I feel pretty,
    Oh, so pretty,
    I feel pretty, and witty and gay,
    And I pity
    Any girl who isn’t me today.

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    • thegypsysailorsgranma

      when is you cumming outta that basement son?
      I gots some chores fo yo ta do

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    • strangethingshappen

      Hahaha Anger Management xD

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  • CountessDouche

    A lot of people will give you shit about feeling confident. When someone expresses confidence about their looks, a lot of people will tear them down. I think it's good, and honestly refreshing, to hear a woman talk about being happy with her body.

    Having said that, it isn't normal to think of yourself as a goddess, or to think yourself superior to others. If you do this, based on your looks, you're in for a rude awakening. All of that will fade. There will always be someone younger, better looking. Your beauty is temporal; hopefully your confidence is not.

    You need to focus on bring a good person, as cliche as that sounds, because if your entire notion of self is based on your looks, then what will you have when that goes?

    It's good that you feel happy with your exterior. I wish more people felt the same, but if you want to hang on you're gonna need something else to go off of.

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    • dadaella

      That's a reflected answer, however I don't just like myself for my looks, but people would give me even more shit if I went into the other things even more. xD
      As for that whole goddess-thing: I don't have degrading thoughts towards others, I appreciate beauty in general and would love to see others feeling this way, I wouldn't think they're inferior to me. I feel like because I am who I am for a reason, I am the most beautiful female to myself. If that makes any sense. I don't think it's the objective truth.
      I guess I'm prepared for growing old because I also think old people can be beautiful. ^^

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      • CountessDouche

        That's good, then. You seem to have a realistic and positive view of yourself, and I think that's lovely, to be honest. I wish more people felt that way. It is a gift to feel self assured. I am in some ways, but not in others...confidence in yourself is a very, very powerful thing, and a gift in my opinion. You are lucky to have it, and I hope you do good things with it....and, seriously, don't let other people make you feel bad for feeling good about yourself. That would be retarded

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        • dadaella

          Thanks a lot. :) I'll make sure I keep up my positive attitude. And I want others to see the beauty in themselves and I hope you will. :) You're right that confidence shouldn't be just the result of being satisfied with merely the physical surface. I do have an obsession with beauty/aesthetics in general, people, music, nature, minds even, but I guess since I don't think it actually defines the worth of anything, I can keep the obsession. ^^ This made me question myself, so that's cool. Good luck :)

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  • User-name

    I hardly know too many openly confident people to begin with so this is a strange post to respond to. But as long as you don't put others down then you do you. Just try to have a little bit more outside of your looks to admire about yourself.

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  • mvmlevina

    Hahaha I loved this post ! You go girl I bet you are a true goddess inside and out! Very few people have your confidence AND magnanimity :)

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  • Terence_the_viking

    People have "incecurities" what the potatoes is that?

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    • dadaella

      I am not a native speaker, I am so goddamn sorry, but what a helpful reply.

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      • Terence_the_viking

        You seem to be full of hate. is it because you love yourself that much that there is no room for ANYONE ELSE.

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        • dadaella

          Lol you seem to be full of hate tbh, nitpicking on others like you nitpick on your own flaws when you don't have the internet to reflect your inCecurities on random strangers ;)

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          • Terence_the_viking

            I see what you did there.

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  • PurplePanda

    Ugh. people like you make me sick -.- your just a vain stuck up bitch if you ask me. btw God is only perfect not some fake girl.

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    • PurplePanda

      -And don't give me some shit about you not being vain, because hon, you are

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      • dadaella

        Of course I'm vain, obviously, but not fake, and not some narrowminded fundamentalist hater like you, thankfully.

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        • PurplePanda

          I'm not a "fundamentalist hater" I'm just telling the truth..AND the truth is that your a Brat. :p

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  • Short4Words

    No. That's called megalomania.

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    • dadaella

      Well that's synonymous with narcissism and based on the other traits, I don't have it.

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      • Short4Words

        You want to be worshiped as a God, that should say it all.

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        • dadaella

          Yep, but I don't think I actually am a god in the sense most people would interpret "god" (I think we're all god in that we're the creators of our world through the way we think, not as in literally "god"). But generally, yeah, you're right about that point. ^^ Still, medically speaking, if Megalomania is synonymous with Narcissism, I don't fit the criteria. I don't manipulate or use people, I have empathy, I think others could and should feel like this. I do have some of the traits, but I don't suffer from it, others don't suffer from it (yep, I'm sure about that, as I said I don't see ppl as my pawns), so not pathological!?

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          • Short4Words

            Maybe it's just plain old vanity.

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            • dadaella

              I guess so xD

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