Is it normal to feel mad at myself that women are so easily offended

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I was a good friend of a woman online. She was 23 years old and very attractive. Today she posted a photo of her posing in a bikini with a hat and smiling on a boat in the middle of a lake. Lots of guys left comments like "nice smile baby". She responded back to them by leaving smilies and hearts. I wanted to write something different and I wrote "lol i dont think many guys are looking at your smile tbh...but i agree nice smile and im not kidding this time :))"

After that she blocked me from posting on her wall ever again. She also blocked me from sending her personal messages. I thought my comment was relatively harmless and in good fun. I was just joking and referring to the fact that she has amazing breasts and they looked great in her bikini.

Now she won't talk to me anymore, even after I said I was kidding.
I know this is all my fault but I can't help but feel that too many women are just so easily offended. She was a good friend too and I enjoyed talking to her.
This sucks I just wanna cry :((

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    She sounds like a drama queen. Probably better off without her.

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  • Aliceee93
    9 years ago

    A good friend wouldn't take something like that to heart.
    I work with men *ahem* for those of you don't know me I'm a farmer I'm around men all the time, there is always banter, they're always teasing me but I just take it and throw it back, the same as anywhere online, with friends. I know some women take it all to heart and don't get me wrong if I'm having a bad day then I can to, but this is why most of my friends are males cause I like having a laugh, women just take it all to heart and bitch about each other behind their friends backs. (Not all women I know, but most I've come across from where I live).

    To me I think you're better off without someone like her, but if you want to make it right try and contact her and apologise and explain :).

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  • TheBunnie
    9 years ago

    Even if she's in a bathing suit or not, making a comment about her breasts is going to be awkward for her regardless. Just because she had a picture posted of her on a boat in a bathing suit means she's necessarily begging for sexual attention. I agree that, yeah, a lot of women that do that can be begging for attention in general, but telling a girl flat out that she has nice breasts if you're not dating her is just... no.

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  • Crvsades
    9 years ago

    Some women are delusional. They like to show their "goods" by dressing slutty or wearing nothing at all, but expect to be treated like ladies. They feel like they are entitled to get the attention but get offended when men feel entitled to express their honest opinion about them.

    As for you offending her, stay chill bro, you did nothing wrong. You were just being a joker in an honest, non-insulting tone which bothered her because it was the truth. Women don't want the truth. They want to be lied to by desperate simps who will do anything to suck up to them.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    As a 24 year-old woman, I don't think you did anything horrible and I don't really see it as a big deal. Social media can be weird that way. Post a revealing pic, and then get mad because you get the "wrong attention."

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  • GinaHead
    9 years ago

    Next time don't get emotionally involved with a girl who's going to treat you like that. Not all girls are like that one.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You were supposed to say, "I wish I looked fabulous like you." People with poorly developed egos are insulted by anything less gratifying.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Stare rape :(

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  • imadragon
    9 years ago

    It seems like she might not have known or ignored that they were looking at that, and was offended when you or anyone else brought it up. It's not fun to get comments like that, especially not if they are unexpected. Telling her that you were joking isn't an excuse, you should give her a sincere apology.
    As for women being too easily offended? They have their right to be offended.

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    • Crvsades
      9 years ago

      They have the right to be offended if they don't dress and act like total sluts.

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      • imadragon
        9 years ago

        They can dress and act like "total sluts" and still have the right to be offended. Clothing doesn't change anything.

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        • Crvsades
          9 years ago

          Well, if they want to have the right to act irrational, it's their choice. But then they shouldn't demand respect from men and should just accept the fact that they're gonna get rude remarks thrown at them.

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          • imadragon
            9 years ago

            Are you saying that mens behaviour should be excused when they are rude just because she is dressed in a certain way? They should realize that she is not dressing in anyway for them, but for herself. If men really feel so obligated to be rude, then maybe they should try to change that.

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            • Crvsades
              9 years ago

              Yeah that is exactly what the fuck i am saying. If women's slutty behavior will be excused, then so should be men's rude behavior.

              Respect isn't a one way street, dumbass.

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