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I don't know what it is. Sometimes I feel like a girl and all I wanna do are girly things and other times I just feel like a boy and then want to things boys do.
Just be you. You probably have a strong female side but that's not a bad thing.
It means you're just a man with some feminine interests and personality traits, it's not that deep.
It's not that uncommon, and it doesn't automatically make you transgender or some super-nuanced "76th gender" that people make up for attention. Seriously I feel like with all the sensationalism around transgenders lately, and with a growing "masculine right-wing" who are setting extremely rigid views of what a man should be in response to it, nobody is allowed to just be the gender they were born as with a little nonconformity anymore.
When I was a little boy (one who was very obviously going to grow up to be gay), I was just a boy with feminine interests. That's still how I see myself and I'm happy. I don't need any stupidly nuanced labels, or ideas of changing gender shoved onto me.
You could be gay, when you get undressed in the company of other men do you get a hard on, I did when I was at school, there is nothing wrong if you do its normal, do you look at men's bottoms walking in front of you or for a bulge between there legs,
I wouldn't say it's common, but there are people who identify as nonbinary or who gender bend for the sake of entertainment or comfort.
This is however something that's still coming into the realm of being accepted in society, and you can expect if you try to live this out you are going to get flak from people around you. People tend to fear what they don't understand and that's been a huge issue for transgender/nonbinary individuals especially in the US.
My best advice to you is take some time and really think about why you feel this way and if/how you would be comfortable expressing it. There are therapists especially educated to help with gender issues - if you can afford it or think this would help, especially if this is causing you legitimate distress, seek them out and talk to them - they can help you decide what is best for you in this circumstance.
Hey wake up kido, you got balls and you are pretty lucky to be born as the strongest of the two types. Stop acting like a f*cking pussy. We, men, are proud.
You're just a kid. Don't buy into this genderbending bs they're trying to feed you.