Is it normal to feel like a fucking loser

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Basically i'm a virgin. i'm 20 years old i'm really depressed because i see hot chicks all the time but i don't have the balls to speak to them and well.....im a loser drug addict with nothing to offer them anyway i dont have a car what can i say im a loser

i like to smoke weed and drink because it helps me forget what a failure i am. I also have a gambling addiction

i hate myself alot of the time but would never be stupid enough to end it all mainly because i still enjoy life despite my stupidity

i mean i had a gf once and i wasn't even man enough to have sex with her and because i couldn't communicate with her so she broke up with me

i'm not gay i just have alot of mental issues.

i have no hobbies and never leave my house accept for when im going to the pub to gamble, or going to work

i had a crush on these chicks at work but because i didn't have the balls to say anything to them they hate me now and think im a creep

is this normal for a 20 year old ?

i doubt it but if anyone has gone throw a simular experience i'd like to hear it btw i have NO FRIENDS

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    This is the first post I've read in a while that actually deserved a fair response...

    So yeah, this isn't normal dude. You need to get yourself some direction. Do something which gives you joy, it will lift you out of this slump you're in. It is very unhealthy.

    [PS: I usually don't try to give advice, so if you are trolling: F.U.C.K you.. But either way, you made me feel better about myself]

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Losing your virginity doesn't make you a winner. Nor does not having a car. You're judging yourself by really random things. Look for the real positives.

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    • SOADslave
      12 years ago

      Nice one :)

      And 100% agreed.

      Look for the positives. You need some direction in your life. Make friends, Do things that you like, besides getting stoned and drunk. Quit taking Drugs and drinking, when you do you'll feel better in the long run, and look better, Then you'll feel better about yourself. Good luck, the internetz believe in you, Unless your a troll.

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  • B^{D
    12 years ago

    i can relate to this story SO much just not the gambling part.....honestly i felt like i had wrote it.

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    • B^{D
      12 years ago

      if it helps in anything youre not the only one....

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  • piman
    12 years ago

    It's the drugs and te gambling that are screwing you up

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yr wasting fun time , argue with yrself when the small voice says "you are a loser" yell in yr head "no you are a winner! " drown it out and prove it by quitting gambling and weed, good luck

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  • ColePhelps
    12 years ago

    somebody better answer soon

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  • pinerd
    12 years ago

    Alright. First of all, no matter how many issues you have, your not a loser. Your problems are losers, and theyre just walking all over you. Stand up for yourself. And also, got your priorities strait. Being a virgin at 20 is NOT A BAD THING. Instead of thinking "hey im a loser. I need a girl. I need a car." think "hey im awesome. Theres only one of me." and yea, dude, youve made some bad choices, but you realize that. Most people in your situation are to mad to admit that. Youve already taken a step in the right direction. You should listen to "innocent" by taylor swift. Really. Ive been in a similar situation and it REALLY helped me out. Instead of thinking about changing for other people, think about changing for yourself. Almost EVERYONE is on your side. Even people that you havent meet. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile. No matter how bad your life seems, its just God toughing you up for what he has planned. Also, even if you arent interested in religion, i would SERIOUSLY recomend reading the Bible. Good luck with your life. Ill be praying for you.
    Final thought:
    You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. :)

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  • putsonsinfear
    12 years ago

    Go to Jesus!

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  • Diver2
    9 years ago

    Do you suck cocks much anymore?

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    You are a loser for not trying. You don't try to get a girlfriend so you don't deserve one. You don't try to quit drugs so of course you are still on them. If you want to do something than do it. You are being a coward and you don't have to be. You cant say "I was too scared to try" and whine about it. That is what makes you a real loser. Not the fact you cant get a girlfriend or your on drugs. The fact you don't give a shit enough to change it. If you truly cared you would do something to try and change it. So quit your bitching and do something about it. Its your fault. You choose to stay on drugs and you choose not to get a girlfriend.

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  • tehfoxyfire
    11 years ago

    first of all tell us...how ugly are you? because if you are ugly then im sorry that has alot to do why chicks dont dig u....if ur face is pretty decent looking and so is ur bod then go for it man its all about confidence u need to get one....

    then the gals will come...

    :)

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  • dalan
    12 years ago

    Get a fucking life....kids in Africa don't complain as much as you.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way. I'm a fucking loser that won't stop smoking weed. I need to go find a job, shave and move out of my sisters garage.
    I'm the real loser.

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  • Justconfusdnlife
    12 years ago

    yea man I know what your going through. remember just like B^{D said your not the only one.
    And dont pull the I dont give a fuck thing, thats no good, I can tell you that personally.
    If you really are tired of it and you truly want to be happy you'll make it happen.
    it may stupid and Im sure you heard it plenty of times self-esteem Im still dealing too

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  • notnormal1234
    12 years ago

    i'd def. say find yourself rather than avoid youself. drugs and w.e don't really help you unless ur introspective as HELL. are you? it may sound gay but open a bible and read a page near the end..it'll or it may help you out a lot. Regression isn't good. get some insight instead..it's much better for you

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    have you thought of maybe taking an anti anxiety/ani depressant drug like lexapro? it could maybe help take the edge off.

    i see the darkness in you, something that i also battle myself. i don't know of an easy fix, but there are ways to at least make it more bearable.

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    • Oasis808
      12 years ago

      Lexopro will only make matters worse. Trust me I am suffering from withdrawl and it has ruined many things in my life. It also makes me more depressed.

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      • AngAnders112
        12 years ago

        damn! how long were you on it? what dosage were you taking? lexapro didn't work for me but I didn't have any withdrawals or issues when I stopped taking it.

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        • Oasis808
          12 years ago

          I was on only 5mg for a few months. I don't believe in SSRIs anymore

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          • Diver2
            9 years ago

            They are pretty cool if you snort them!

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  • NotSoLaky
    12 years ago

    just dont give a fuck anymore. about like anything. then if u fuck up you wont care

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