Is it normal to feel guilty to hate your resemblence of your late grandmother ?

Okay so i am near the age (late twenties )when my late grandmother passed away decades and decades ...etc. ago , because she got sick , anyways people tell me i look alot like her (physically ) , everyone says she was so pretty and when she walked down the street all the men kept looking at her ( which i think that perhaps of envy ,was why she passed away ). Lately i've seen pics of her in black and white ofcource , and i think she is pretty because of inner beauty more than looks , she was pretty and she had a pretty face but not WOW , she had a big rounded full face and was big boned and had a full figure and looked like a women in her twenties , while alot of people tell me i look like a school or college girl (which is a compliment because it means i look younger than my age), so resembling her means i look like a woman not younger , also beauty back then differed from beauty now , today beauty is more fake and in the past it was more natural .

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  • Shnaz

    Maybe she is rolling over in her grave at the fact she looked like YOU look now.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    ...I think you're way overthinking it.

    I'm ashamed that out of all of my grandmother's 11 grandkids, I look the most like her. She was a prostitute and a stripper. That's not even a compliment to me.

    But your reasons seem... what are your reasons?

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    • That i don't see her as someone who was very pretty , maybe in real life she was but in the pics she wasn't THAT pretty .

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        But a resemblance isn't a look alike. You could be much more attractive than her and still resemble her =/

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