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I've been having sex with her off and on for about four years now. She used to be married to another schmuck then cheated on him with my friend before getting a divorce and marrying my friend. Should I feel guilty about having sex with an alcoholic slutty whore that my friend should toss in a dumpster and find a real woman?
You're wrong, she's wrong and your friend is wrong. All of you were involved in affairs.
It's all wrong. Seems once a cheater always a cheater. People who start a relationship where one or both are cheating are asking for trouble.
Against my better judgment, I will ignore that last bit and give the benefit of the doubt that this is a real question.
In that sprit, my answer is that it is normal to feel guilty for disrespecting your friend and his marriage that way. But I also don't think your friend should be shocked that a woman that would carry on a relationship with him while married, would also break her vows to him when he choose to marry her. That doesn't excuse your behavior. Just because she is a cheater, doesn't mean you had to accept her invitation to do it with you.