Is it normal to feel embarrassed at crosswalks?

I don't know about the rest of the world but I feel totally embarrassed to cross the street in a busy cross walk. When the sign says to walk, I find myself looking down and I won't dare to look at the drivers looking at me. I can't tell if I feel guilty for making them wait or what.

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  • I'm like you... I'm afraid that people will think bad things about me. I think I may have agoraphobia thought.

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  • Jim_Pfoss

    Imagine what you think about strangers you see crossing the street. That's all other people think of you. Nothing scary.

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  • Mimi69

    I'm like that too. I always comment or think things about the people crossing in front of me, so I always assume when I'm the one crossing that people are doing the same.

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  • Gardenia

    Hahaha!! Me too!! :D

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  • zEropoint

    I feel like a doofus standing around *waiting* for my chance to go, but once I can walk, I don't think about it anymore.

    Have you ever driven a car? Do you harbor hostile feelings towards pedestrians who cross at stoplights? I've driven for many many years, and I can tell you the only feeling I have for pedestrians is the sense that I better keep a tight foot on the brake, because I don't want them to get hit or hurt. When I'm in a car, I feel like it's part of my "job" as a responsible driver to look out for and protect the pedestrians around me, and I'm pretty sure most other people feel that way, too.

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  • All you have to do it walk pass. It's not a life time movie.

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  • Sexcrzyfuck

    SAME HERE!
    but i have Agoraphobia so just going outside i tweek out..
    i hate when anyone looks at me..
    I mean im very pretty, slim, and everyone loves me
    but i just got this phobia and it haunts me :[

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  • Maromiya

    i feel eactly the same way, but its not only on a busy crosswalk, its also when theres no one on the sidewalk, just the drivers, im always scared that they'll b thinking something bad about me, so i keep my head down :P

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  • rickster

    If they are looking at you its because there is nothing else to do. They can't drive and you are probably the only thing moving.

    I have the same thing though...

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  • knowsnostars

    lol, i think this is completely normal.

    i always get uneasy, and somewhat embarrassed while crossing the street. or even walking down the sidewalk. i always try to keep my head down, and not look at the person/group of people.

    i feel even more awkward when the people are around MY age l:

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  • CrayolaCookies

    I do the EXACT same thing. I don't know what it is but sometimes when I'm crossing I just get this embarrassed feeling. It even happens when I'm in a food court by myself or waiting for a friend to order. I can't help but to feel everyone is staring at me >.<

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  • BrightEyes

    XD I feel the same way! I don't want everyone looking at me, so I hate crossing the street when it's busy. Totally normal.

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    • burnee

      I get anxiety sometimes when there is a lot of traffic around. That's why I can't drive. I don't know how normal it is, but you're not the only one who feels funny about it!

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  • kool420deathstar

    Screw them YOU have to walk at like what 3 MPH max? They can drive ant like 100MPH they should feel the way you do not the other way around

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  • soorimoori

    the same with me, I imagine they are laughing at me or my style or the wayI walk or sth. bu they really don't :D::d

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  • i get a little bit like you barely

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