Is it normal to feel dominated by the other person in a mutual break-up?

When one has a mutual break-up it's supposed to be mutual, right? But I guess I'm feeling like he's got some kind of empowerment over me, as if he's the bigger person. We still have conversations and sometimes I feel as if I'm the one waiting to talk to him. So it doesn't feel like a mutual break up anymore on my side, although on the surface it is. I don't understand how to get back to a normal stage of not feeling empowered by him, although he might not know a thing.