Is it normal to feel better when people don't like you?

People tend to not like me or like Rachel from Friends says "girls tend to not like me." Haha and why not? We don't know. For me, I am a good friend, honest, friendly, open-minded, patient, understanding, etc. Other than my personality, I am attractive, others tell me I am beautiful, pretty, etc. I was raised in a good family in a good place so I believe I was raised with good morals and common sense. I honestly have no idea what makes people not like me. The only thing that I can think of is I can be awkward cause I don't "befriend" others like anything, it takes time. Another thing could be because I look at things in a positive way so just cause I don't come off as not confident or insecure, doesn't mean I'm "fake." It's funny how it's encouraged to look at things positively and when people come across someone like that (me) people look atit like unreal or fake, but thats just my perspective on what probably makes others not like me. But when I do socialize, I still find myself being the one who is not liked. At this point, I tell myself "oh well" ? lol because I know I am a great person to be around and theres no reason to hate me. People are friends with the most fake and rude people on earth so I find it a compliment that others can't befriend me cause that means I am not fake or rude and I'm not. That's why every time I find someone else to not like me, it just makes me laugh or smile now. People today are ridiculous and I rather have friends of quality than quantity. It can also be intimidation and people don't know it or won't admit it. It does bother me though sometimes when others just dont like me cause I never gave them a reason to so that just makes THEM look bad. It gets tiring to the point where I am confident and not going to change for others to like me.