Is it normal to feel betrayed husband dated a friend while we were separated

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My husband and i were divorced for a while but we got remarried last month.but I am really resentful that him and a woman I thought was my friend had a thing two weeks after we split up. My sister saw them together and told me.My sister bet they were doing it before we split up.Which pissed off my husband.They both submitted to a lie detector test to disprove what my sister and friends have said.The results proved they were telling the truth. Although I did find out they both had feelings for each but decided not to act on them.I feel so confused now.I still have to see this woman and it is so awkward esp since my sister went to this women's job and cursed her out and trashed her all over town.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    You should be happy they didn't act on their feelings. That probably took a lot of will power. Talk to both of them until you feel better. You should be able to do that since it's your husband and your friend. And try not to react on *your* negative emotions.

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  • duckfrog
    8 years ago

    I like fish tacos.They make me happy you need to buy fish tacos and chocolate milk and vodka so you can be happy too

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Sounds lovely!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    This is one of the prime reasons why a couple who break up, should NEVER get back together.
    Whatever your husband did while you were divorced should not be any of your concern, but as many (both sides) often do, you have made an issue of it. It will forever be something lurking just below the surface, and most likely will come up in an argument, and be very detrimental to your current relationship.
    If you want this to work, you need to completely forget it and never allow it to even cause you to mistrust him the tiniest bit. He had every right to be with whomever he chose when you were separated.

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    • TheDentist
      8 years ago

      I wonder if your wife, 42 years your junior, shares the same sentiment.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Absolutely.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Too bad your husband came back to you. He would have been happier fucking the other woman. If you want this to work, you will have to completely forget about it. And, you seem like an emotional person with too little self-control to do that. Good luck.

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