Is it normal to feel bad when being honest can make you feel like a jerk?

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not all the time it happens. but sometimes when i'm honest i feel like a jerk. i tell myself its better than being a liar.

but does it ever get any easier? the trouble i have with honesty is the situation on telling a woman why i'm not interested. when a woman asks me why. when i'm honest about it i just feel like a jerk. but i'm not going to lead a woman on. that be even worse.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    It's not your fault if some chick can't take a hint and then gets all butt hurt when you tell it to her straight. There's nothing wrong with you and I feel for you, brah. I have the same problem with guys from time to time and it's not easy.

    People who chase others shouldn't be surprised when they get shooed away. I hate all the stupid love stories that perpetuate the belief that if someone pursues another person long and hard enough that eventually the object of their affection will return their "love"! Ugh, gag me with a cat turd that a dog just ate, barfed back up and plans to eat again! I hate people who can't take no for an answer!

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  • ieat
    9 years ago

    You're doing the right thing the way I see it, I'm a woman and I think it's completely fine, id love to know why some guy wouldn't like me, would help me with future relationships

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  • SinepjuLasis
    9 years ago

    there are two kinds of people. thoese who lies and those who lies less. i am the first one, i lie and it helps me to avoid situations that may be in that or in other way bad. you say things straight. well it your choice. there is no wrong or wright, it is you who decides is it bad or good.

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