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Question explains its self. is it normal to feel bad after you have sex with someone you lack feelings for or dislike.
I suppose so, I think sex is supposed to be a really connective experience, so it would make sense that having sex with someone you feel no connection for just feels pointless.
I wouldn't know, I guess I'm a rare species of male that actually wants a connection with a woman I'm going to sleep with.
I've only had sex with one person that has meant nothing to me, a friend of my cousin.
The only reason why I felt a bit bad about it was because he had a girlfriend even though my firm opinion is that is truly isn't my responsibility since I wasn't making the first move.
I don't know if it's normal, but I usually don't feel bad about it. I've fucked several people I don't have any feelings for, some of them I hardly knew. I just enjoy the sex and then forget about it.
I never have myself. But then again, I've never had sex with someone I implicitly dislike - only people I love, don't love but lust over to the point of insanity, or am entirely neutral on (I've been with one person of each category, oddly enough). So long as I feel confident that I've not used them or taken advantage of them, I won't feel bad about because I see no reason to be and no point in doing so.
Not every sex interaction is between a husband and a wife, there are other possibilities.
I guess when you got sex with your partner you do have feelings for that person and therefor you don't feel bad about it. But imagine you got sex with "just someone", a person that has no meaning to you. A stranger perhaps.