Is it normal to feel angry and sad on children who lose their parents ?

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Is it normal to be very angry towards God for my Grandmother's death , even though i didn't meet her , she died when my Mother was only 6 years old . I feel very sorry that my mom had to live her whole life withouht a mother and that she lost her mother when she was just six years old . Actually i get very angry and sad when any child loses thier parent . is it normal ?

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  • lindy_leee999
    11 years ago

    IT'S NORMAL TO FEEL some sort of anger/resentment in this situation.
    But I don't know if you should be directing your anger towards "God"
    I don't want to sound unkind but what was the cause of death ? maybe she would have died anyway, Gor or no God

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    I feel angry and sad whenever I see adults who haven't got any children. No wait, I actually don't. But I wish I could. My feelings and my thoughts are kind of badly hardwired to each other.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Hey, I'm an orphan. You just deal with it. Like I'm sad my mother who I was always extremely close with, like sisters, won't be there to walk me down the isle. Or give me advice when I finally decide to become a mother myself.

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  • jessisbest
    12 years ago

    Yes but god took them 4 a reason and you can't get mad at Him

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      what's the reason, for something 'horrible' like this ?!

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        That which doesn't kill us will only make us stronger!

        Perhaps this made your own mother a loving giving person...

        My mom lost her dad when she was 7 and that was 70 years ago and she has moaned every single day about it. That and everything else has made her a rotten bitter person. So please believe that everything happens for a reason and just accept things that you can't change.

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