Is it normal to fantasize about watching my husband with another woman?

I am a jealous person so I don't think I'd ever be down to actually live out this fantasy but it turns me on to picture him with another woman.

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75% Normal
Based on 225 votes (169 yes)
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Comments ( 23 )
  • mixwell

    It's quite.a common fantasy, sometimes I wonder if I had a chick if it would turn me on to watch her fuck but I couldnt do it. Maybe a chick im just fucking but not a gf or wife

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  • carinadvicer

    This isn't a weird fantasy really; and if it makes sex better then why not!!
    I suppose if you 'have to have' this fantasy in order to have a good time with your partner then is the time to perhaps wonder!
    Can you share your fantasies? Perhaps bring the subject of fantasies up.......

    But be prepared to hear his as well. And you have to make sure you are ready to hear them!! Some people cant take it when a partner says they fantasise having a threesomes or sex with someone else.....

    I think you have to be totally secure sexually with someone to share these.
    But there are always stuff you can do together to spice things up!!
    Say no more LOL

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  • SuperBenzid

    It isn't that abnormal a fantasy. Also there is really no point worrying about any fantasy if you're not planning on making it a reality. You may as well be free inside your own head, it's the only true piece of freedom a person can have.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Those kind of fantasies disgust me; I'm not down with the free love bullshit. I wouldn't want to share myself or my sweetheart with anyone else, ever!

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    • shuggy-chan

      Greedy, never let me have fun

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  • Yeah, no. I can't understand these kinds of fantasies about the person you love. I think my fantasy would end up by killing them both.

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    • SuperBenzid

      I think fantasizing about murdering someone is proof that you don't love them.

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      • RoseIsabella

        If I loved someone and I saw them being intimate with someone else my love for them would die right then and there!

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      • You can think whatever you want to. :)

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      • I don't agree, some people kill their loves ones out off love (I know it's insane). But wanted to see your husband with another woman is proof that you don't love them.

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    • RoseIsabella

      This so called fantasy of OP's sounds more like a nightmare than anything else!

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      • Im with you on that one!

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        • RoseIsabella

          Thanks.
          ;-)

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  • michelle1799

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  • CreativeThinker

    your husband is one lucky dog

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  • Jessica6969

    Yes it's normal! When are we gonna start dating? Lmao I'm a 23 yo male is my username normal? Lol. Is it normal to look for a girl that thinks this is normal. That would be the shit, I would keep it classy, I'd pull out at least when I was smashin the side chick, maybe! Lmao for real this site isn't normal!!!!!!!!

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  • Papakinky74

    Perfactly normal... he obviously makes you feel good, so its a natural voyeuristic response to want to watch that... and maybe you would enjoy seeing him enjoy someone else too. I say good for you and definately talk to him about your fantasies. Fantasy is always sexier when shared

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  • Sharkbandanas

    I heard stories about this being a fetish amongst women, but when i get married i don't think i could eer feel that way. But it is completely normal. Everyone has different things that turn them on.

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  • BigPnes

    If it gets the water works dwn there up n running.,nike just do it

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  • Couman

    I've more often heard of men fantasizing about watching their wife with another man, but this is at least the second time I've seen the female version posted here, so maybe it's more normal than I realized too.

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  • lookinforanewplace

    I'm curious, is this fantasy with a woman only, or is
    your husband going to take it in the rear end from
    another man, also?

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    • RoMiff

      Just another woman. I have bi-sexual tendencies so I think this is just my version of seeing both things that turn me on at once.

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      • I like turbo sluts.

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