Is it normal to fall in love with your ex when you see them going through...

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A little bit of background: my ex and I went out for about... 2 years. We were middle school sweethearts, and a year of high school. We loved eachother very much. My older sister had fallen inlove with his older brother and I was in love with him. It was perfect:)
Eventually We grew apart, broke up and started new lifes. We still cared about eachother, and everytime we would see eachother... It was blissful. There's no other way to describe it. He's just amazing. My sis ended up marrying his brother they've been together for more than 10 years. So were still in eachothers lifes. Were good friends, we joke around, treat eachother with so much respect. And... Just how he is, he's always so funny and he pick on people just for a laugh, but it's so funny:) everyone loves him. He has an amazing girlfriend, she's sweet, smart, beautiful and she makes him so happy. I love her dearly for making him happy:)
Recently.. We found out he has cancer:( and our families have come together so much more, we embrace and are so glad he's fighting this with everything he has. But... Now that I know... Or even face the fact that he might not be around, breaks my heart.. And I still love him. I love him more now... Now that... He's loosing all his hair:( I have seen another side of him, this vulnerable man, and i want to tell him that i care, he knows I care... He can tell, eventhough I know he doesn't think he's sexy. He's still the sexiest man I have ever seen, now more so. I don't know what to do... Should i tell him that I love him?
Another thing.. I got pregnant by some piece of crap guy who ended up being a liar and a fake. When he foud out I was pregnant And alone, he came to me... He told me he never stoped caring About me, he told me he would be there for me and my daughter. My stupidass ended up leaving him for my babies dad. And... My babies dad left us again eventually., and I was left without him, an I knew I meast up. He doesn't blame me.. He hold no grudges towards me. But, I just feel like... I could of had him... And I lost him... And now... Were loosing him, and i am so... Scared. What should I do? Should I tell him?

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    I dunno, I think maybe the people commenting above are a bit young or niave or something...if he has a girlfriend who you've been very kind about in this post, who makes him happy, I think it would be selfish to burden him with the complications that you confessing your love to him would result in. Ashbash says its like a movie - but its not, its real life and things will get really messy. Tell him you love him, as a friend, dont confess romantic love to him, what good can come of it?

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    If you love him, put him first. It isn't always about you. If he has a girlfriend, let it be. Don't rock the boat, just to satisfy your selfish desires. If he was to break up with his gf, then move in.

    For now, be his friend. He needs supportive friends now more than ever.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    Tell him. Well if it's too hard to say, just show it every single day.

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  • AshBash
    13 years ago

    This sounds like a movie, so in my opinion, tell him before you lose him forever.

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  • kricket
    13 years ago

    Show him this post? I think you should be with him no matter what if u love him.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    well he have a gf... but dunno... probably tell him

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