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I have a cousin that a year older than me, one day , he told me that he love me .. we are dating from that day. We did everything like couples do.. make out , n ect (but not sex) . Is it normal ? Or i should stop this love ?
Your FEELINGS are normal, male-female attraction knows no artificial rules or norms introduced by society. HOWEVER, it may be illegal to have coitus with your cousin. It may be illegal to get married too. Also consider the ridicule and marginalization you would have to face from family and friends. Also incest increases the rate of having children with genetic defects and low immunity.
So with all those factors it may be best to find someone else.
I say: Go with your feelings and pursue this BUT please don't get biologic children together because you guys are too close to do that and is unfair to the children because they could get ill.
regarding your relationship: Your family might be against it, I'd try and respect their feelings about it and maybe not shove your relationship up in their faces until they are ready for it.
My basic advice is to seriously think about where this is going.
Do you even have intentions of getting married one day?
If that's the case then look up your country's/state's laws about cousin marriages or something.
Just be aware of how your family may feel and how you'll tell them if you continue this. There are many scenarios that can happen.
You should know that it's not normal. Don't date your cousin or you might be popping out retarded babies one day. You don't want that!!