Is it normal to fall for someone who isn't as close as you'd want him to be?

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Let me start by saying, i feel like we're more like brothers than friends. We talk a lot, send each other gifts on birthdays, christmas, ect. But i feel like i am falling for him. He's smart, caring, funny, and pretty fucking cute. only problem is, i'm terrified to tell him how i feel in case i scare him away. At times he's the only one who can cheer me up, his presence alone makes me happy. if i had my own place, i'd ask him to be my roommate, but i doubt that'll happen any time soon. I wish he also liked me in the same way.

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Based on 28 votes (21 yes)
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  • cme3185
    11 years ago

    masturbate a lot. it helps.

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    • non-norn
      11 years ago

      What do you think i've been doing ;)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Do you even know if he's gay?

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    • non-norn
      11 years ago

      Well i know he isn't gay, we've both had girlfriends, so it's weird for me, I've never liked a guy like this before...

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    11 years ago

    Well you can either make the jump and live a happier fuller life with someone that may care for you the same way or Jump and fall into a huge mistake turning things awkward. It all depends on how well you know this person, don't psych yourself out listen to your gut and try to understand his intent. Either way one person isnt the end of the world

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  • purplegirl22
    11 years ago

    Tell him! Spill the beans, at least you will know if he cares for you that way too! If you don't do it you will will have that "what if" hanging above your head all the time.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Don't tell him that you are falling for him. Be more subtle

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    • non-norn
      11 years ago

      I'm terrible at subtle though

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      • kelili
        11 years ago

        Oh you should at least try.

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        • non-norn
          11 years ago

          I am! Just, you know, I'm pretty sure he know's me well enough to notice I'm hiding something

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          • kelili
            11 years ago

            You're doing right then:) Good luck

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            • non-norn
              11 years ago

              I'll need it

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