Is it normal to fall for my best friend?

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Ok...
So I'm currently dating a girl, and I love her.
But I think I'm falling for my best friend...wich is a guy.
I'm bisexual. I've dated both genders before.
My girlfriend is straight and she hates the fact that I'm bi.
So, I have to act straight when I'm with her.
Some people laugh about this, but I'm scared of her. She doesn't hit me or something, but she's very sensitive, and she tried suicide before, that's why I'm scared.
My best friend knows I'm falling for him, that's actually what he wants to.
He's also bi.
I always liked guys more than I liked girls.
But since she tried suicide, I gave her a chance and we are dating for almost 7 months.
My best friend flirts with me...ALOT!
And I flirt back...
When my best friend is with me and my girlfriend, he looks at me alot. I just look away.
And sometimes he's really near to me. AND SOMETIMES PUTS HIS HAND ON MY LEG!
Ugh...
He's not trying to make us break up, but he likes me alot, and I'm starting to like him too.
I thought about ignoring him...but I don't wanna break his heart.
And I don't want to break my girlfriends heart either!
I don't know...
Maybe I should just stay single?
Please help me...

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Comments ( 3 )
  • Ksizzle
    12 years ago

    I think you need to tell your friend that you currently have a girlfriend. and if you don't want too hurt her. than you need to cut this out. But if you don't want to be with her. break up with her. it's not right too lead her on. Just don't tell her your leaving her for a dude.

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    • Legion
      8 years ago

      Thing is, he seems like he wants to, but he is afraid that if he does leave her, she will kill herself, and he doesn't want that to happen. He feels he would be responsible for her death.

      That girl really needs a therapist

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  • Legion
    8 years ago

    It's sad that some women feel like a failure because their man turned out to be gay.

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