Is it normal to enjoy watching my wife in sexual situations with other men?

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I am 32 I have been together with my wife for 17 years and married for over 10. I can remember a week after we first had sex a friend of mine was over and she was laying on top of me on the couch in very small shorts. I knew that from his perspective he could see her pussy. I whispered into her ear "Baby, Joe can see your pussy right now" and pulled her shorts a bit to the side so he could see better. I was incredibly turned on by this, and she was so wet after a few minutes that she left a good size wet spot on my pants. We have in the years since had a number of threesomes and other group situations (mmf,mff,mfmf,mfff) this has occurred often throughout most of our 17 years together. I really REALLY enjoy watching her suck another guy off and have sex with another guy (no way for her to know ahead of time, but she always seems to find guys with a really large penis. Mine is a bit bigger than average,but she seems to find the BIG ones). We are very open and honest with each other about our sexual attractions, if she really wanted to I would be OK if she had sex with another guy without me there (I know she would talk to me about it first)I think I would like to check out her cute little pussy filled with cum after she has been out and met up with some other guy. She is comfortable with me pursuing my sexual interests, but I don't really ever go on my own. My wife is gorgeous, I love her very much, and our active sex life is all I can really keep up with. It all seems very normal to us, except that we obviously have to be careful of who realizes our sex life is so out of the "norm". Is our situation much more strange than anyone else?

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  • hany777
    13 years ago

    i like to see my wife fuck with another man,i just imagine it and i turned on in a crazy way,but problem i love my wife too much and i affraid if i open this subject with her she will run away from me,my wife very sexy and we have very good sex life but i am too much interested to see her fucking another man and cum in a crazy way,i wish from any woman to advice me how i can check my wife can accept it or no?

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    • bonkers
      12 years ago

      that's my problem , convincing my wife. our sex life not so good.

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  • JazzyJim
    13 years ago

    Very normal. Especially wanting another guy to cum in your wife. My wife has regular sex with another guy that always cums inside her. She is not on any birth control so the experience is very thrilling.

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  • daydreamer394
    9 years ago

    Why?

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  • hardone14
    10 years ago

    I think it is very normal for couples to have this fantasy and many even act on it. However, what I don't think is normal is that couples are willing to share their thoughts on the subject for fear of what they think others will think. My wife is very conservative. She was turned on by the thought, but was afraid to act on it even though she was constantly being hit on by other men. Finally, I found a man to hit on her at a very public location. She acted on it and our marriage has never been the same. It is awesome for her as her self esteem is sky high. I am constantly turned on by the thoughts. We are safe, considerate, and respectful of each other in this lifestyle but I would say it has added so much to our marriage.

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  • nomnomasianmen
    13 years ago

    I'm a woman and my life with my ex was kinda similar in ways. So this stuff is normal to me but I've realized over time this isn't normal for most people and a lot of people aren't going to understand you or your wife. :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Normal, lots of guys have fantasies like this.

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  • wanting77
    12 years ago

    WOW, you are so fucking lucky! I would give anything to see my wife with another man. She is very hot but ultra conservative and stuck up, as well as religious. She is 26 and I am the only guy that she has been with, her first partner. I know I would love the real experience of seeing it done as I can masturbate many times in a row thinking about it, and often think about it when we are having sex. Any pointers to pulling it off? Again, I would do anything to see this and would love it!

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