Is it normal to enjoy abuse?

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Ever since I was in 6th grade, my brother had been physically and sexually abusing me. Now at that age, I was terrified and wanted nothing to do with it. I often thought of ratting him out but he always threatened me with physical violence if I dared to tell a singe soul. After a while, I kinda gave in and started enjoying it... Now being in college, the only time it happens is over the summer when we are both home. Sometimes I ask for it (and he throughly enjoys me begging for him to hurt me) but other times he makes me wait for it. I know what we are doing is really wrong but now it feels so good. What do I do?

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Based on 47 votes (13 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    That's fucked up, yo.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you captain obvious

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        I love that guy!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          me too

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Children who are sexually aroused when they're too young to deal with the consequent strong emotions almost invariably end up addicted to whatever type of sex they were first introduced to, even if they didn't enjoy it at first. Alternatively, they have no boundaries in relation to sexual abuse by others.

    It's up to you, but believe me a life of sex addiction and/or abuse isn't any fun at all after a while. If you don't want your sexuality f'ed up for ever I'd be getting some therapy ASAP.

    The fact that your body has learned to enjoy it doesn't mean it's not abusive, in fact it obviously is and it's still abuse even if you believe you love the abuser and he loves you

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  • Ebola69
    8 years ago

    It's not hurting anyone else so carry on with the incest.

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  • Mytwin295
    8 years ago

    the incest is real with this one

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    You should know this isn't normal. You might be brainwashed, but I don't know. Masochism is hard for me to comprehend.

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    • Sprungindentod
      8 years ago

      actually masochism is quite natural and one can't help it, just like any other fetish. one chooses it as much as one chooses to like the taste of cheese, they don't. besides it is natural enough that it ha become acceptable in porn.

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  • Loratio24
    8 years ago

    Find a girl, share this with her, and if she doesn't want any part of it keep searching till you find a girl that will understand. If you are gay or bisexual then expand your search.

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  • Rick_Bawls
    8 years ago

    I am straight now, but have experimented with men in the past. I got really aroused doing degrading things to them, such as ripping ass and making them smell it or making them tongue my anus.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago

    Stockholm syndrome or Traumatic Bonding. You've become sympathetic to your brother. He more then likely wanted to warp you into his play thing from the start.

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  • Sprungindentod
    8 years ago

    the lannisters approve! :D but seriously, if you like it, go for it. it's definitely not normal but the heart wants what it wants. but just curious, what kind of abuse?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      sometimes its whiplashes, other times its the belt. but its usually (prolonged) bondage. Sometimes I ask for it because I think I deserve it.

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      • Sprungindentod
        8 years ago

        HOT!!! keep it up!

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