Is it normal to end all my relationships?

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I can't keep relationships.

I've only had short romantic relationships because I always end up breaking it off. I just can't get myself to care about the other person. They're good for fun dates and sex but I don't really feel attached to them. I've tried really hard, but I just don't feel it.

Same with friendships. I get bored of people really easily and end up changing friend groups every few months.

I am a girl in high school, so I'm hoping I mature out of it. But I really can't see myself loving anyone

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  • Emarmake
    7 years ago

    This is totally normal for someone in high school. Generally high school is the time to begin the path of finding yourself (sounds cheesy i know). Basically you don't really know what group you belong in yet and chances are, you won't figure that out till you're in your twenties. So don't feel bad or weird for trying to find your type or preferences, once you find the people you truly connect with, you won't want to find anyone else. this goes romantically and socially. So for now, just enjoy high school and don't get stuck thinking you have to find "the one" now or those perfect BFFs. Have fun. Experiment (not with drugs, drugs are bad ;) ). And enjoy this journey to find yourself.

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  • idontcaree
    7 years ago

    Yes relationships are for losers

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  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    I think the only place you're going wrong is expecting things to happen quicker than they do. You need to be really patient if you want to feel real attachment with a friend or romantic partner, (which should still in many ways be a friend).

    Its good that you don't feel fake attachment right out of the gates, a lot of people have that problem, and it ends up being an issue later, when you thought you really cared about someone before you got to know them.

    But yeah I would say give it at least 6 months to a year, or even more for a relationship partner, heck if you get along with a friend or romantic partner, and they treat you well and are nice to you, there's no reason to get rid of them.

    And trust me, once you adjust your expectations, you'll go from where you are now, to feeling like it happens faster than you'd like.

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    Have you thought of taking up cocksucking?

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