Is it normal to dump a friend for this?

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I had this one friend but I did not figure out this till later on. Well apparently he dates this girl but this girl is not his wife. He has a wife and kids and he neglects his wife often to run off with his GF. He always says he cares about them but he refuses to tell anyone the truth and keeps leading on the GF. Recently he also told me that he got a new job and a cute new boss hes going to love checking out since she is totally hot. After which he said he is worried his wife might dump him (Even though its two shits about her). So I told him he was a selfish prick and am considering telling his GF about his new boss to spare these two women from his fucked up head games. He pretends he cares but I dont think he really does if he is going to string everyone along and wont do anything to fix him. After which he says "You dont know nothing about me or my life". I feel terrible for his Wife and his GF and I dont even know his WIFE!

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  • pixie44
    8 years ago

    Don't get involved unless you're okay with drama.
    The best thing you could do would be to talk to him about it and seeing as though you have and he hasn't changed I would not be friends with him either. Why be friends with someone who is completely selfish and can lie all the time.

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  • MR.mr
    8 years ago

    I'm not as concerned with how he treats his wife as much as how he treats his kids. It's not right to treat her that way but husbands and wives can be replaced, but your kids are your kids forever.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    Oh please, please tell these women.
    But get proof first, I would not side with a random person that just claimed my boyfriend cheated on me without solid proof.
    Like record a conversation where you tell him that if he does not tell his wife, you will.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I only know his GF.

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago

        I don't know how it's like in your country but isn't it possible to search for her name and find a number?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          I dont even know his wifes name. I told you I only know his GF and I did not know he had a wife till he told me.

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